Tuesday, November 24, 2009


Webster's Revised Unabridged Dictionary, published 1913 by C. & G. Merriam Company defines “Synastry” this way:
n. 1. Concurrence of starry position or influence; hence, similarity of condition, fortune, etc., as prefigured by astrological calculation.

“Synastry” refers to the astrological study of relationships, a kind of bringing together the stars for two people. It's a bit of folk fortune telling in nearly every culture to try to make sure that couple is right and the time is right. For those who know me or are longer term readers of this blog, you know that I did no such thing as this before - or maybe things wouldn't have turned out the way they did.

A long time ago, a helluva long time ago really, I ordered a Relationship Reading from a very respected astrologer for Miss Sunshine and I. So much has happened since I ordered this reading, that I actually thought that it would never arrive. I'd quit thinking about it even. It FINALLY arrived in the mail. I listened to it today. It was a really hard day for me.

What do you think the Relationship Reading said?


bindhiya said...

Dear Skeeter,
I am not sure what to say..
I think this way "Whatever happened, happened for the good; whatever is happening, is happening for the good; whatever will happen, will also happen for the good only. You need not have any regrets for the past. You need not worry for the future. The present is happening..."
It is hard but this always helped me... throughout my hard times and still.
take care dear
we all will be here for you.
♥ & ((hugs))

(I believe my karma sending me here to check your blog this late night 1.23AM :)

kylie said...

are you going to tell us?? you have to tell us
maybe it arrived when it did because it would have been dangerous beforehand?

Mel said...

I'd echo what bindi shared--though I doubt I would have said it as eloquently.


Whatever happened, whatever is happening and whatever will happen....will happen for the good.

Blessings to you on this Thanksgiving....

Amber Star said...

I don't know what your book told you. I rarely delve into the mystical world of astrology. I've checked our sun signs and we are supposed to be very compatible. I wonder about that a lot sometimes.

Happy Thanksgiving, Skeeter. Whatever happens will happen. Que sera sera.

Leni Qinan said...

I'm not sure either, Skeeter, but I'm very curious about it. I had my phase too, but the stars always failed with me...

teenie said...

Maybe something like: "RUN FOREST RUN!" However, most of this stuff is bunk-I once had my taro cards read and it said I would have babies late in life--which I did, BUT the cards didn't make it so, and whatever your things said has nothing to do with what is real and now. If you believe in this stuff, you will stagnate your existence and will be afraid to do anything in the future. Throw it out with yesterday's paper.

Grass said...

I agree with Bindhiya Skeeter, things happen for a reason. I don't want to tell you things that you know already like maybe there's someone better out there for you because I know I hate to hear these words myself when I had to go through the same phase.

All I do know is that you're a good person and that somehow you'll get through this eventually. You are a survivor. Cry when you need to. Smile when you feel like it. You don't have to pretend that you're happy when you're not. People understand.

We, as your friends, feel your pain.